Have you ever noticed that there are people out there that are just dying to knock you off your stool and basically destroy your confidence? You dance to the beat of your own drum and some people can’t handle that so their natural reaction is to lash out and well, hate. Whether its mean words, hurtful comments or just plain nastiness towards you. They have no valid reason to dislike you. These people are called haters and if you let them, they can really get to you and make you feel bad enough about yourself to want to change. One word of advice – DON’T!
Haters Hate… Your Style
If you’re unique, quirky individual that stands out from the crowd chances are there will be people that prefer to blend in that will mock you. People tend to fear what they don’t understand so take it as a compliment if someone doesn’t “get” you because the people who do are even more special.
Haters Hate… Your Confidence
If you walk around with your head held high knowing you look and feel great regardless of what people think, surprise surprise people may not like that. People can struggle to understand the difference between confidence and cockiness. But just because your comfortable in your own skin doesn’t mean you have a big ego. In fact most of the haters wish they could be at ease with themselves but instead take out their insecurity problems on others. At the end of the day it’s their problem, not yours.
Hatred is bred by fear of the unknown and ignorance, so if you feel like hating on somebody, ask yourself why and what you’ll gain from it.
YOU CAN’T PLEASE EVERYBODY. 💋
Peace & Love – D